Sun DAY fun DAY

Huh....strange day yesterday was indeed!

Today.

Talked to a friend of mine this morning, forgot her code name for the blog....I think I call her "D". As I talked, I noticed I had a text, from, last guy. Giving me the low down on how he spent the rest of his evening and saying "Good morning".

I am perplexed still...and not sure how to respond anymore. It has knocked me off balance, because as USUAL. I had written him off. And BOOM, there he is.

I ended up getting a call from the guy who works at the Echo Park wine bar from New Years Eve, that I gave in my number to in a drunken state...although, I still do not think I was that far gone.

In between cleaning and studying for my test...I had another call from a guy from eHarmony. Let's call him "M". He explained he had a great marriage. He then said he was widower. I said, "I am sorry to hear that" and asked, "How long ago did she die?" He said, "Four months ago."

WHAT? RUT ROH!

And you are ready for a relationship? (I don't think so) He tried to talk me into at least meeting him, I said "No, I am not prepared to walk into a situation with kids whose mother died 4 months ago." Not to mention....if he had a great marriage, wouldn't he need more time to mourn?

He then said, she died of liver disease. She was an alcoholic. She knew she was sick, but refused to go to the hospital. And I am thinking, how happy was your life together?

I am not able to give myself to a situation such as this and I wish him a lot of luck in finding a mate at this time. I was also glad, I was able to be honest. He actually thanked me for it.

That was interesting and sad.

So, I watch Under the Tuscan Sun again. My daughters think I have lost it and I don't care. I know a man will come pick a lady bug off of me while I sleep too.